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YOUR CBT THERAPIST AND WHAT IS CBT COUNSELLING?

Oct 16, 2017

Your CBT Therapist and What is CBT Counselling? 


Introduction
The aim of this short article is to explain what is CBT counselling and it will also explain how CBT therapist works.

How the CBT counselling evolved?
The word CBT stands for cognitive behavioural therapy. The word cognitive refers to your thoughts. The cognitive behavioural counselling then focuses  working with, assessing, exploring, finding issues with your thoughts and behaviours. The cognitive behavioural therapy or counselling was developed by Aaron Beck who as his majority of contemporaries were trained in classical psychoanalysis. When Beck worked with his patients he noticed they focused a lot on their negative thoughts. He created the cognitive behavioural therapy as a counselling method to help clients manage their negative thoughts. Later, the CBT method was adapted by other practitioners to treat PTSD, OCD, personality and anxiety disorders.

What happens in the CBT counselling session?
The CBT counselling is a very focused method. Unlike in the classical psychoanalysis counselling that believes that the therapist is mainly a blank screen on which the client projects problems, the CBT therapy is very focused and collaborative. In a typical CBT counselling session, the therapist will ask what is your goal. The assessment of your issues is taken and then the session starts. You will talk about your history, about what symptoms you have, how long have you had done, how does it impact your relationships and how do you cope with it. Each client's problems are unique, so depending on the  content of the session, the therapist will create a tailor-made conceptualisation of your issue and later some assignments for you to continue with at home. The extra work on the issue in between the sessions, means that you should progress faster. You will be given easy to do, simple and fun assignments. Some other tools that the CBT therapist might use is a Socratic questioning,which means open ended questioning that aims to shed a light on your issue. The CBT therapy is also evidence based approach. This means that your thoughts and believes are measured against reality in easy steps during the sessions. This approach like most approaches aims to focus on your thoughts, feelings, behaviours and also the therapeutic alliance. The change happens via the therapeutic relationship, through behavioural experiments and home assignments such as flash cards.

The CBT Therapist
What does your CBT therapist look like? The CBT therapist is like any other therapist. It is a person, trained either exclusively in CBT or this person might have a past training in other therapeutic approaches, most do. The CBT therapists have in-depth training how to relate people in a sensitive manner, they will focus on your feelings, thoughts and behaviours. They are focused, they keep an eye on making sure, the work stays focused on your goals. The CBT therapist will give you assignments. They talk and I say this because some clients complained that some therapists using different approaches don't talk, which clients find uncomfortable. 

How can you self-refer for CBT Counselling?
You can simply contact us and explain when would be the best time of the week for your session.

How many sessions will you need?
The number of sessions, depend on how complex and old your issue is, if there are an ongoing issues that need to be also addressed, if you take or not take drugs or alcohol, if you feel motivated to make a few positive adjustment to your life, how focused or not focused you are, how often can you make yourself available for the sessions. If you have any further questions about CBT counselling or if you want to book a session with a CBT therapist, please do not hesitate to contact us and we can schedule a session for you. 

INDIRECT ABUSE IN DOMESTIC VIOLENCE AND MENTAL HEALTH ISSUES

Oct 09, 2017

HOW INDIRECT DOMESTIC VIOLENCE CAN LEAD TO PTSD, DEPRESSION AND ANGER MANAGEMENT ISSUES 

Domestic violence is a psychological or physical violence aimed at victim or person who does not welcome. It has to be of a repeated nature as opposed to a one-off incident. There is a power-imbalance where one person cannot defend himself or herself in relation to the other. The indirect domestic violence, is used in this article to refer to rippling effect of domestic violence affecting family members usually children in it's vicinity. The indirect domestic violence can lead to depression, trauma and PTSD, anger management issues and issues in forming intimate and long-term relationships in the adulthood. 

There is a lot of information on the internet about domestic violence but not much is being said about the effects of indirect domestic violence. The below articles written by ANGER THERAPY LONDON looks at three areas which are depression, PTSD and anger management issues that are present in people who were indirectly exposed to domestic violence. If you need a help with domestic violence, if you want to learn a good anger management skills to prevent further arguments and conflicts, whether you are the perpetrator or victim, or the formerly affected child, please do not hesitate to contact us to book an appointment. Read the article by ANGER THERAPY LONDON here: https://angertherapylondon.com/domestic-violence-trauma-anger-management/

ANGER MANAGEMENT, BREAK-UP AFTER A LONG-TIME AND STARTING DATING AGAIN

Oct 06, 2017

ARTICLE ABOUT ANGER MANAGEMENT, BREAK UP AFTER A LONG-TERM RELATIONSHIP AND STARTING DATING AGAIN IN YOUR 30s, 40s and 50s

Read the following article about anger management being single again in your late 30s, 40s and 50s and starting dating again. This article describes three hypothetical categories of singles out there. The article will help you to understand that there is a dating life after a long-term relationship breakdown, it will provide you with a three types of singles out there and two which you should avoid that is if you are looking for a serious relationship. If you feel affected by the article and would like to receive a support for anger management contact us and to read the article follow this link? https://angertherapylondon.com/anger-management-starting-dating-i-know-i-not-know-i-will-not-tell/

NEW SEPTEMBER 2017 REVIEWS ON ANGER MANAGEMENT SUPPORT

Oct 02, 2017

READ REVIEWS ON ANGER MANAGEMENT COURSES IN LONDON

If you are looking for anger management whether it be because of domestic violence issues, relationship issue or court order, looking for the right service can be daunting experience. When you start this kind of support it is important that you feel comfortable with your therapist, because talking about our weaknesses can be threatening and we might feel ashamed. At Citips. Angertherapylondon.com and Angermanagementcentrallondon there is no judging or shaming, the service strives in a friendly way to provide clients with a good anger management skills so they can still use their anger but in a way that is not threatening to people in their environment. When clients identify during the course of the anger management sessions what their triggers are and when their acquire a good conflict resolution skills or peace restorative skills, this could lead to restoring of a trust, bond and respect in a relationship that may have been hindered under a strain of the clumsy expression of anger and aggression in the past. If you are still feeling anxious about approaching your potential therapist, please do not hesitate to follow this link to read reviews from our formal clients who sought our services for anger management and this might give you a flavour of what working with us might be like for you: 

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SUPPORT WITH SEPARATION AND DIVORCE AND ANGER MANAGEMENT

Apr 04, 2017

SUPPORT WITH SEPARATION AND DIVORCE

When it comes to a breakdown of relationships that can sadly escalate into a separation or divorce, we might likely end up feeling confused, disintegrated and maybe needing anger management sessions and it is here when counselling support might be vital in helping you trying to make a sense of, resolving or adjusting to your new stage of your life.

Love is what gives us the joy and a will to live but when an ongoing relationship conflict turns chronically sour some of us decide to try to separate. The decision for separation might not be mutual and could be a cause of many arguments and ongoing tensions that are exhausting leaving both partners unable to cope with the daily responsibilities.

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QUITTING ALCOHOL AND DRUGS TO AVOID AGGRESSION

Apr 04, 2017

QUITTING ALCOHOL AND DRUGS

One of many reasons why quitting alcohol and drugs could help you manage your aggression and save your relationships:

https://angertherapylondon.com/christmas-alcohol-induced-aggression/

CONFIDENCE ISSUES

Apr 04, 2017

CONFIDENCE ISSUES

ANGER MANAGEMENT

Mar 29, 2017

ANGER MANAGEMENT

ABOUT ANGER MANAGEMENT

Anger is a useful emotion to have and use when we want to inform our environment that our boundaries were grossly crossed. However, anger and aggression is also intrinsically embedded within our society and on unconscious level can cause many issues in the public place or in couples. 

Some people know how to use anger constructively and to their own advantage and without harming anyone and being actually fair and that is the sort of person Citips would want you to become should you want to refer for anger management. Some clients deliberately abuse their aggression and might have recommendation or order from a judge to undergo and anger management and those clients are welcome to contact us. 

There are also clients who are unaware of their unrefined anger issues but regardless of whether their aggression is deliberate manipulative means to gain control or unconscious result of helplessness with regard to how to manage it all clients are welcome here. In a typical anger management session, the history of anger is taken, the worst anger outburst is described, former coping strategies examined and relationships also assessed. Read More

DEPRESSION MANAGEMENT USING CBT

Sep 08, 2013

DEPRESSION MANAGEMENT USING CBT

DEPRESSION MANAGEMENT USING CBT

Depression is a negative mood change, longer lasting and it blocks our full potential and somehow it does not want to go away. People commonly complain of having no hope, feeling hopeless and helpless, they report eating changes and a loss or weight gain, a loss of pleasure in recreational activities, feelings of sadness and loneliness, feeling suicidal or using coping strategies that make the situation worse. 

Every client has a different unique story that caused and continues to maintain their depression and some clients' stories are similar. Some depressions are short-lived and some are chronic. Some clients who come to see us, have tried anti-depressants that have not been working or tried home remedies that failed to work. 

At Citips robust in-depth approach is being used during assessment to find the exact cause of your depression and we then collaboratively design the right strategy to resolve your issue which should gradually lead to an improvement quality of life and restoration of a positive mood. Read More

COUPLE THERAPY

Sep 01, 2013

COUPLE THERAPY

COUPLE THERAPY 

Relationships can be a cosmic source of joy and happiness and sometimes of a complete heartbreak, a sense of failure, frustration and unhappiness. Many of us are excited for many valid reasons and we rush into relationships. But the question remains whether we are well-equipped to deal with issues thrown at us as we sail through this love and life journey. The reality is that many of us are not prepared but there is no need to despair as the commonly presented issues are not a rocket science but common couple issues that can be resolved. 

People who seek couple therapy commonly bring into sessions issues with miscommunication which is usually linked to our unconscious processes or a lack of a good communication skills. Unconscious processes simply means us using our unconscious mind, the mind that we trained so well over the years that is somehow delegates what we do and without any effort from us. 

So what you might perceive as a nagging girlfriend or boyfriend, husband or wife are actually your real issues and results of your unconscious behaviour. Read More